Making chilies was not so fun before!

Some experiences in our life make a big difference. May it be positive or pessimistic; they leave a remark by improving you as a personality. We learn from our mistakes; is a truly said phrase, at least it is 100 percent applicable as far as sex is concerned. Awkward moments add laugh to horny moments adding spice to the love making session. My friend Karl shared her bubbly experience of being in awkward moment while making love with her boyfriend. She is a fun-loving person and I really like her being sportive in every situation.
The other night, she was feeling frisky and was in super mood to get along with her boy-friend. She started kissing her sleeping boyfriend, hoping to get some response to her cuddly behavior. He was all tired and was fast asleep owing to the crazy working hours he has to follow professionally. This is a major issue of the generation badly ruining the sex life of couples. After a bunch- full of kisses he finally woke up, and they started messing around in love. After a little foreplay, sex entered their session; the guy pulled Karl closer and whispered "What kind of meat is it?
Karl was surprised, as she never expected such horny dirty talk from her boy-friend who enjoys sex without exploring much. These words gave her goose-bumps, making her much horny than before.
"What kind of meat is this?" he said again, with closed eyes.
By now she was mad. With this she went on for kissing him on face and her boyfriend bumped up from the sleep. Finally she got her explanation; he was asleep and was dreaming! After he was fully awake, Karl told him the whole story over which he said, Oh man; I had no idea I was dreaming that we were making chili. And both busted out laughing loud.
This was a very sweet sex fail ever, the couple loves each other intensely, the situation made them change the phrase of “making love” to “making chili”

Wrong Place; Wrong Time!

Embarrassment to the height; is what we can say after reading this post. I was just 17 that time, thinking of it brings tears in my eyes of laughing, but experiencing this sex blunder at such tender age was not what I ever expected.

As I mentioned I was a teenager then, with full vigor and enthusiasm. Sex was not routine and was very passionate and irresistible. It happened Friday night when my parents were off for a dinner party hosted by a close family friend. Once they were out of home, I immediately ringed my girl-friend and called her up to spend some cozy time together. The hot blonde landed up in sexy attire which made me a mouth watering devil.

Without wasting any time, we got into each other enjoying the body heat and the feel of being physical. She was a real sex lover; she was bold and her seductive moves made me go crazy. We were on the couch and both completely undressed with a pile of clothes on the floor in front of us..

Those days, I was very curious of using Viagra at-least once. The passion was unlimited and so was my erection, but the lust to get it harder and harder made me take it on. I was deep in to her and so was she.. Suddenly we heard the sound of keys in the door!! Shucks! It was my parents coming back home…

My girl jumped off to hide around in the corner, and I was struggling to get my clothes which were mixed in to hers.. Grabbing the first pair of pants.. I started forcing my thighs in to it… I looked over and what is see my mom and dad watching me with a surprising yet shocked gestures.. I was like a fish out of the water… With red faces both went in to their room.. With eyes clearing displaying their anger over me..

My erection was to the Everest, but my pants were refusing to get up.. NO no, not because of the erection, but because it were her pants. I was really sorry for my girl-friend, as she has to stand in the corner of her boy-friends house without even the basic pair of clothes and with the shocking mode; is such an annoying feel.

However, whatever it was, it went off; and now I am a grown up matured man with all the common sense. Every incident makes a mark on your life, so happened with me. This one made me realize the blunder wouldn’t have happened if we both would have stripped separately…

Wanna know what is in his mind?

For girls it’s a real tricky task to know what is in his mind while having sex. But with a proper approach you can hit the bulls-eye with the right arrow. Men are nothing difficult to understand, at-least not that complicated as women.

Every man is different from the other; when it comes to pleasuring a girl, most of them adapt the playboy kind of attitude. It makes them feel powerful and they enjoy sex the most. However, there is other category of men for whom the feeling of being committed and dedicated to their partner makes them feel more lustful. The basic aim remains the same, to make her feel awesome.

Men are more concerned of their masculinity and many flaunt of their virile powers. Of course, it’s a god gift making them feel and enjoy the power of being a man. There are many such things aside from just hoping that the girl is enjoying and wandering that she is evaluating my performance deviate his mind from performing strange things while having sex.

The first question that hits his mind is, how did I get over her? The position he initiated for, did she love it? or is she enjoying it? Are the questions hovering his mind every moment he bumped up with you. Men expect their women to be straight forward when it comes to enjoying sex.

Secondly, decoding the seduction signals is like clearing the toughest entrance exam to get full marks in the pleasure course, truly said as ”intercourse”, the best course of life. Once, he gets tuned to the seductive tricks of the girl without missing a single signal, then he is the winner of the trophy.

Many women go off-track while making a sex talk, men hates it to the greater extent. Love talks should be arousing; the conversation should not reach the winters in the north-pole.

Fantisizing; Men enjoy fantasizing much greater compared to women. It’s a natural booster dose. Fantasizing sex keeping in mind the hot bod gives them great pleasure. This can create blunders some-times, if the love making doesn’t go as per their imagination.

Staying hard for longer and not ejaculating very soon, is the another major issue! Even though if he is not impotent or a regular Viagra user, the fear or early ejaculation remains constant in his mind. Sex is more of a mind game than physical. Maintaining stability is the core.

Along with these key resons there are much more mental notes like birth control thoughts, time parameters, about the room and its ambience etc. which are constantly hustling in his mind.

Understanding what’s cooking in their mind aint rocket science, just few simple tricks and body language decoders will make you the winner of his heart.